Have you ever lived outside the country you were born in?


I have and Now, I think everyone should! Many friends I know have traveled extensively around the world and I am truly happy for them. Deciding to go on a vacation to some far away destination seems a wonderful diversion from the work-a-day life and it can be eye-opening, fun, and incredibly exciting! But going away somewhere to visit versus living there are two entirely different experiences.

Location of ( green ) – on the European contin...

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My family moved to Romania (Dark Green on map) in 2006 and I can truly say my world was radically altered, and the way I look at the world will never be the same!

Romania is a small country in central Europe, not much larger than the state of Oregon. It has a similar geography as well, with a part of its boundary on the Black Sea in the west and the Danube River in the south. The plains as well as incredible mountain vistas bring variety to the aesthetic nature of the countryside. The climate is similar as well exhibiting the four distinct seasons as one would experience in New England.

Over 23 million people live in this post communist(December 1989) country which joined the European Union in January 2007. The people here still maintain a largely agricultural society, a large percentage of the population still grows food and raises various meat and dairy producing animals.

Gypsy village

One of the most remarkable attributes of the Romanian people is the relational attributes they maintain. I really did leave a part of me there, it did take a while to get over the cultural barriers but after a while we were accepted and made to feel more like family than friends. One town that we lived in(Razvad), we had neighbors that we received a post card from here in the states after they went on vacation! I can’t remember the last post card I received from someone in the states, or one I sent to anyone else for that matter. This is just an observation not a judgement statement.

Living in another culture changes you in a variety of ways, first it changes your expectations. I had to make a copy of a key one time, it took literally half the day(something I could have accomplished in minutes in the states) and it only took half a day because I had a local Romanian with me, which leads to another change in

Gypsy Village 2

expectations…Time.  Time has a very different meaning there, it is a much slower paced society. Another difference we learned about was invitations. Here if you are having a party and you invite 50 people you may end up with 25 to 30. The same party in Romania, inviting 50 people means you will end up with at least 50 and probably more. When you are invited to someone’s home this is a great honor and there is definite rules of etiquette to be followed, first upon entering remove your shoes and your host will provide house slippers for you, next you will be offered a drink probably tea or (sweeka which is not how it is spelled) but would be the equivalent of a shot of whiskey here only in the amount of a small teacup. this you would accept but would only sip, first, because if you finished it they will automatically fill it again, and second, because if you finished it you may  start talking or acting inappropriately.

Ist snow in Targoviste

The biggest thing that impacted me was the history. The first city we lived when we arrived there was Targoviste. This was one of the major cities that was under attack during the Turkish invasion. You may have heard of someone called “Vlad the Impaler” (which is where the origins of “Dracula came from) As the Turkish invaders approached the front line that had been sent out first,  were beheaded and those heads were impaled on spears as a very effective anti-invasion incentive. to the rest of the invaders!

Downtown Targoviste

The people of Romania helped me to understand that in many instances, just because you knew a different way to do something, didn’t necessarily mean it was the better or the best way to do something, They also showed in a variety of ways that people still matter much more than things.

There are many things that were different and many stories to tell, perhaps on another occasion I will post some of them.

Lone Horse, Romanian Countryside

 JT

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I am a happily married man with 6 children and have overcome an autoimmune disease through lifestyle changes. I hope to share my story and explore others' stories and perhaps together both of our lives will be enhanced.
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10 Responses to Have you ever lived outside the country you were born in?

  1. wildgrain says:

    Very interesting and informative! You are quite adventurous and your motive for going is inspiring.I am sure this experience will remain with you and your family forever.
    Thank you for giving us a picture of Romania.

    • JT says:

      Thanks Win, yes it was a tremendous experience, one I will always treasure. Thank you for your feedback and your encouragement!

  2. Mary says:

    Hey!! Those are MY pictures!! Are there some kind of laws that protect against having your pictures used without your permission!!! :)

  3. I really enjoyed this. Thank you for sharing. I have never lived in a foreign country, though growing up near Cleveland, OH and moving to southern New Mexico was quite a culture change! I was literally in the minority and experienced some of what that was like. It was an amazing experience that I will always treasure. I feel like it made me a better person to immerse myself in a culture so vastly different from what I had always known.

    • JT says:

      Yes Joanna, one of the surprising side benefits of this kind of dramatic change was also an incredible sense of being free from the confines of stuff as well. What was the purpose of this move to southern New Mexico?

  4. 4HisGlory says:

    Thanks John…Someday I would love to experience a different culture. We’ll see what God brings in the future…

  5. pennycoho says:

    Thank you. I enjoyed reading your post from beginning to end. I’ll be back for more.

    • JT says:

      Thanks Penny, I am glad you liked it. I have started to read some of your blog as well and will check out more later. :-)

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